Dear Nonprofit Sector,
The Gala Reckoning: What Do You Want Your Event to Achieve?
Anyone who has worked with me has heard me get on my soapbox about galas. Not because they aren’t energizing, and not because they don’t serve a purpose, but because we’ve allowed them to become something they were never designed to be — the centerpiece of a fundraising strategy.
Sara Elghobashy
With spring gala season in full swing, I find myself having the same conversation with CEOs and board members across organizations. We talk about revenue expectations, donor engagement, sponsorship tiers, and messaging plans. But the real conversation — the one we keep circling back to uncomfortably — is far simpler — what is your gala actually achieving?
It’s a question worth sitting with, because the honest answer reframes almost everything we do around these events.
The numbers we celebrate aren’t the numbers that matter
Most organizations track the dollars raised on the night, celebrate the net raised, and move on. But within those calculations, the visible costs — venue, catering, design, production, consultants — are only part of the picture. The most significant investment, staff time, is almost always the one we rarely quantify.
Development teams routinely spend months in full event mode, redirecting energy away from major donor strategy, grant writing, stewardship, and the kind of relationship-building that actually compounds revenue over time. Leadership time goes with it. Program staff get pulled in. Communications teams reshuffle priorities around save-the-dates and run-of-show.
If you told a CEO that a single fundraising tactic would consume a meaningful share of their development team’s bandwidth for a questionable net return, most would push back on the strategy immediately — unless that tactic is a gala. The gala gets a pass that no other line item in the development plan would survive.
Galas can quietly teach donors the wrong lesson
There’s a donor behavior dimension that gets even less attention. Galas can inadvertently train supporters to give transactionally. A donor’s primary annual contribution becomes tied to buying a ticket or a table, which means their philanthropy is anchored to the event rather than the mission. They give when an invitation arrives, not when the organization needs it most.
This creates a pipeline that looks healthier than it is. When a gala is paused, retired, or reimagined, some of those donors pause too — because the ritual that prompted their giving disappeared. We’ve seen organizations discover, the hard way, that what they thought was a base of committed supporters was actually a list of event attendees.
None of this means donors who come through galas aren’t valuable. It means the event itself can become a ceiling on the relationship rather than an entry point into it.
The reframe: galas are communications tools we keep mislabeling
Despite all of this, galas still hold real power — just not the kind we’ve been measuring.
A well-designed gala brings people into a shared moment with the mission. It can sharpen how the work is understood, deepen the emotional ties that drive future giving, expand visibility, shift narratives, and anchor broader communications efforts throughout the year. These are meaningful outcomes that can strengthen annual fundraising efforts.
This, I think, is the heart of the gala reckoning. It can be a powerful communications tool, but only if leadership names it as such and resources it accordingly. It can nurture donor relationships, or it can cement transactional patterns. It can elevate an organization’s profile, or it can quietly drain its capacity. The value depends entirely on the strategic clarity leadership brings to the decision.
A different question to ask this season
Before the machinery starts turning for next year’s gala, the most important question isn’t about themes, honorees, venues, or sponsorship levels. It’s this:
What do we actually want this gala to achieve, and what will it cost us, financially and organizationally, to get there?
If the answer is fundraising, we should be honest about whether a gala is the most efficient path to that revenue, or whether the same staff hours invested in major gift cultivation or grant strategy would produce more. If the answer is communications and visibility, we should plan, staff, and measure it as a communications effort, and stop apologizing when the net revenue is modest, because that was never the point.
When organizations answer that question honestly, galas stop being foregone conclusions and start becoming strategic choices.
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